gotta send out some praise here. i’m not all about the public display and trying to convince everyone how wonderful, or how wonderful i think, my husband is…he finds it laughable as do i. however, he needs some recognition this week, and the last 2 years for that matter.

i’m pretty independent and head strong. he has never sentenced me to the “woman’s role” of cooking and cleaning all day, being the little momma. those are not his expectations and not the wife he wished he had. he accepts me for me, and appreciates my drive and determination. he likes that i actually contribute something to society, and that i love what i do…giving it my all each day. i love that he is not some old school chauvenist who wants me at home where my only goal for the day is to find all the dirty dishes the kids leave about and get the laundry folded and away. each day for me has a purpose. i still have to find all the dishes, worry about the laundry, and make sure my kids are happy. but hey, i’m me, i can be the mom, the professional, and the student. that’s what having ability, strong will, and a brain will do for you. but i also have the support of someone very special who is willing to step up when needed.

the first week of school is unbelievably exhausting. i’ve been coming home, resting (sometimes in sleep form) then studying til i have to sleep again. he handles dinner most nights and deals with girls whenever i need. while i did my meeting thing saturday he bought groceries…girls right along with him. not many men will venture into that territory! he got everything we need too. he made the best black-eyed peas and cornbread yesterday. OMG i have enjoyed those. he’s let me nap as needed and did not say a word about it. he cooks, he cleans, he is supporting me thru the difficulties of grad school while remaining unconditional. each week back at school will be easier…and come october everything will calm down and the stress will be less. cant wait!

btw, thanks djembe. i do appreciate all you have done this weekend. smiles.

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