We really aren’t “in” to Halloween that much. There are just too many dangerous wackjobs out there. However, I do not want the girls to miss out on the fun so we attempt to partake of a few adventures. This year my oldest was invited to a Halloween party. “Big bit” was all kinds of excited about this. For ideas we made a trip to a local seasonal store. Shocking! There were aisles that we could not allow the girls to visit because the costumes were so trashy. I am not about to let my child dress up like a prostitot! (That term is lifted from the news article that I read here.) Granted, the one’s we avoided were adult costumes, but many of the children’s were just as bad. After much discussion and decision “big bit’ decided it would be cool to go to the party as Tonks. For the unknowing Tonks is the metamorphmagus from the Harry Potter series. I think it is the purple hair that sealed the decision. We found the cape and cool black boots for ‘big bit’ to wear. Honestly, the outfit had goth wizard tendencies. The model on the hair dye must have had white hair because it was not nearly as bright on the dark blond hair of ‘big bit’. It was night, so no matter. She went to the party and ‘little bit’ was invited to stay too. I knew that this would be the ultimate in uncool so I had to decline. (Oh, how great it would have been to have a few hours!) ‘Big bit’ was actually supposed to stay the night, but around 10 PM they started the ghost stories. Nope, ‘big bit’ does not “do” scary.
When I dropped her off I made certain that it was very clear that her cell was to stay on the entire time and she was to call home if she felt uncomfortable. When the call came I was not terribly surprised, and I must say there was relief as well. It is hard to let go, even to the oldest. She has stayed with friends before…no problem. The problem is how new we are here and how little we know everyone. I wasn’t uncomfortable, but it still feels better to have her home. Besides, I don’t “do” scary either!
Halloween night did not hold much excitement. The “bits” dressed up, Tonks and a cute witch with a pointy hat, then we took them to the mall to make trick-or-treat rounds. When we came home Djembe was the ultimate good guy and grilled steaks for the fam. The steaks were great, but mashed taters and corn on the cob made the meal. While he cooked we visited a few houses in the neighborhood then came home to answer the door for our treat seekers. It was sufficient to appease our girls and plenty of candy was accumulated.
Many of my students missed today. It was likely the result of a late night rolling houses. They were not as hyped on candy as I thought they would be either. This made my life tons easier and was a great relief. Today was an observation day for me. As a non-tenured teacher I am on full cycle this year. Observations usually do not make me nervous. I have an open door attitude about my classroom. I’m confident in what I’m doing and the door is open for observation any time. However, this was my first formal observation here and I had NO idea what to expect. It turns out that my students were absolutely wonderful and helped make it easier for me. They kept questions relevant and gave full participation. There was no slacking in that class. That period is pretty great anyway, but they helped ease the nerves today. It proves that they are fully capable of reading the board for instructions and then following them without being told several times! I had them working on a group project where they could create a news headline, talk show interview, or movie promo based on the topic. They really got into it and I’m looking forward to presentations. Much to my delight the principal loved the concept and enjoyed the lesson. Yes! Validation! It feels good to know I am doing something right when everything has been so frustrating.
This week has been tremendous prep for both my high school and college classes. I’m glad to take tonight and just relax for a bit. I’ve been offered the opportunity to teach a high school distance learning course. I’ve declared interest, but I have to wonder if it will be too much. We’ll see what comes.
Off the cruise blog land…have a great weekend.